White women range from those so intrigued by black men that it veers into fetish to those so reluctant to date black men that it feels more racist than preference-driven.
Williams was spotted with Kelly one day after Jay-Z released his “Footnotes” short film.
There were awkward moments based on race and cultural differences (one ex’s cousin liked using the N-word and I’m sure another ex was just acting out some weird Mandingo fetish thing).
But I definitely wouldn’t say my experiences dating White women created stories that were vastly more awkward or uncomfortable than the stories I have about dating any other women. There’s no way I could find a thousand words to write about what dating a White woman did to my soul or what it meant for me as a Black man to date White women.
We say insane things like “I prefer White women” Really?
You prefer seasonless chicken, skin that is naturally without a glow, and Seinfeld instead of Martin? You prefer the women who for the first time in their lives protested years after Trayvon, Rekia, Sandra, Aiyana, and Mike were laid to rest by this American fascination with keeping the Negroes in our places?