know my husband and I are like strangers in our home. He doesn't want me to do anything but stay at home. She is very caring and friendly with everyone and tends to thier needs. I would have stayed single 4 life and only had friends. Then I wonder why I constantly crave communication from someone else. Things could be as simple as keeping her own nails clean or keeping the house clean. Someone who knows when I need some attention, when I need to offload & talk about my day. Wellllllllll yesterday he took me out on a date ...dinner and a movie still not much conversation but hey it was nice and I really felt like he was trying. Everyone loves her and she truly is a great person and a terrific mother. Someone who is 1,000 miles away but always makes me feel special. I mean absolutely none left but managed to rekindle the fire with them? Has anyone done that successfully with their spouse? I hate answering by saying "I'm fine" when really I'm not! honest with myself and allow you to blame me for the failure of our marriage.... Someday ur gonna miss all the times I asked for a kiss and u didn't give me one Someday ur gonna miss me asking for a foot massage after a 12 hour set up day and u didn't bother with me Someday ur gonna miss having me... My marriage is purely a facade of few simple beautiful things. We've had talk after talk about how I need more physical affection and he claims he's crazy in love with me. my father had a very hard marriage to my mother as well. I admit it was me that chose to marry eventhough my family warned me about her yet I insisted. Here I am lying in bed writing this and another night by myself. He's asleep in a single bed with our 9 year old daughter. It's like my life is a book whose secret no one knows and I am sailing on an unknown meaningless journey.. than 2 months since I posted my first story...thanks to the people who responded. We have fallen into a rut and the excitement of the early days have faded and the connection we shared seems to have disappeared. You shouldn't have to force someone to make a space in their life for you, because if they... when we met the chase his perspective on life dreams ambition morals where everything I ever wanted in life ," he is still my dream guy " with no buts , just desire I desire the free man I met I desire the chase I desire... I do not know why she is always upset and anxious when she is at home. This morning as I was drinking my coffee in the kitchen my husband walks by and he asks me where I'd put the suitcase. It's been 19 years, but it's been bad for so long, I don't even know what a healthy relationship is anymore. Now in this modern world we are bombarded with so much information on lives, cultures... If you don't have that special thing from day one chances are you get older and realize what that empty spot really is. I don't know if he is really okay with it or just not saying anything because of the kids. But inside, there is always the hunger for true companioship between married couples. without even realizing it, I went down the same path as my father. It started a few months ago and our daughter asked my husband (h) and her father to sleep in her bed with her. Things have moved on and I feel like posting again. When I last posted I mentioned how my wife had gone from no sex, to no kissing and really no... Maybe it's those things that I miss the most and am seeking out. As I sit here having a one sided conversation with my husband, I'm getting very little response in return. Due to her anxiety or whatever it is - she gets distracted and does not take care of things. I hate not having someone to sit up with, chat to, laugh with & be intimate with. I ask him where he was going, and he tells me he's leaving to Mexico for another week. Just when you get to that stage in you life when you can take a breath, you realize you feel empty. We have shared wonderful moments, we spent nights and even weekends together…
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U are so self centred u can't see 2 feet ahead of u. We got married 1.5 years ago and the second we got back from our honeymoon all affection and intimacy stopped like a light switch. I didn't want my son to grow up without me in his life. I've got such a horrible selfish wife you wouldn't believe she has turned every second of my life into a bitter experience and nobody is to blame but myself. my husband has never been my friend or have ever tried.. who awakens a woman's love with no intention of loving her" -Bob Marley I don't think one should waste their time on someone who only wants you around when it's convenient for them. In olden times, people's satisfaction levels were easier met and they lived a hard life, with little or no certainty. Last weekend I cooked a special dinner...candles...trying to rekindle what we once had. I told him I had prepared a special dinner for him. Over the past 15 years of marriage, but particularly the last 10, I've felt... He seems to be okay with everything but I am not and its frustrating. Oh sure we talk and take care of kids etc but you can't have any deep meaningful conversation when someone's attention is divided if not elsewhere.
The epidemic of extravagant weddings is seeping into our culture in an unmistakable way.
Turn on the TV at any given time and you will find a plethora of shows centered on the concept of achieving the so-called perfect wedding.