Honestly I didn’t think any relationship, past or future, could get any worse than that until a few months ago when I dated an insecure man. He was intelligent, ambitious, and had a promising career that paid him extremely well.
If you’re dating a guy who never ever uses a card, he’s either got bad credit or doesn’t want another woman to know of his extracurricular activities with you behind her back. So has he introduced you to his friends after the first few dates? Those lonely, affectionate dates As distant as he may have seemed in a public place, does he flip on the reverse switch when he’s in a beautiful, romantic plush restaurant that’s all lonely and romantic?He snooped my Facebook page (yes, this grown man), interrogated me about childhood guy friends, and even questioned my ‘feelings’ when I didn’t respond back to his calls in what he considered a reasonable amount of time.According to him, I didn’t show that I cared enough and every guy besides him was the person I really wanted to be with.The first time the jealous accusations occurred I shook them off, partly flattered that he didn’t mind showing he cared. But the second time when he stalked my Facebook wall picking out posts from guys who had written me before he and I even began dating, I knew I wasn’t in a healthy situation. If I made a nice comment about another man, he said I didn’t compliment him enough.If I talked about guy coworkers in an innocent manner, he questioned my relationship with them.