None of us have a hard time getting dates, finding love, or sex, whatever it is we happen to be looking for.In our culture, people are taught, unfortunately, that being fat is bad. A fat person is just as worthy of love, respect, and kindness as any other person.Perhaps the overflow of models, actresses, and beach bunnies is contributing to Los Angeles’s perpetually landing on lists like “Worst Cities for Women Looking to Marry.” Our “norm” is a practically unattainable standard.I have never been “the norm.” I have been overweight all my adult life (see also heavy, curvy, voluptuous, fat, “BBW” — whatever term you want to use).LA is the national headquarters for the super-fit and the stunningly beautiful.
I have no idea why I came up with them btw – it’s not even like A Night To Remember was stuck in my head.
I've always wanted to know what goes on inside the heads of men who refuse to date a woman just because she is fat.
On the one hand, as a sex writer, I understand that people are attracted to different things, so I wanted to keep an open mind.
I knew that there was science to support the fact that men love a woman with a tummy, but I wanted to hear from the other side.
And, just to be clear, the views of these men are not my views — or necessarily the views of Your Tango.