If your school is not coeducational or if you're in trade school and most or all of your peers are of the same sex, or, of course, if you're past school age, your job will be a little more difficult.Then you'll simply have to be a little more imaginative in finding ways to meet potential dates.Confidence is the common thread through most of my teachings. And if you’re shy, you might find that you’re having difficulties with women. They may fumble over what to say if a guy they like strikes up a conversation, or they may take a while to warm up, but you’re always going to have to try harder than them to be noticed.A woman wants to see that you are assertive, ready to lead, and comfortable with going after what you want.Hollywood makes it seem so effortless for people to find love.But, reality check: Dating isn’t always easy, especially for quiet women.I used to be extremely shy, and only conquered it after talking to hundreds of thousands of women.
“I’ve struggled a little bit with being open on dates, but I would say that it's helpful to just be yourself and play to your strengths,” says Rachel, a junior at Roosevelt University.
Which site to use depends on what you're trying to accomplish.
The best thing about pay sites is that the membership price weeds out people who aren't serious about finding a partner.
Places typically recommended by "experts" include the laundromat, the shopping mall, and the supermarket.
The laundromat can indeed be a good place to meet available singles.